Modern relationship advice is everywhere, and most of it is making your relationships harder, not better. These are the buzzwords that we see spread all over the internet like the misused attachment labels, the "be more vulnerable" coaching, the body count debate, and the love bombing warnings. Sadia has spent years working with couples one-on-one, and almost none of it holds up in real practice. Sadia Khan is a psychotherapist and the author of The Red Flags:The Truth About Love, Trauma, and the Lies Your Therapist Didn't Warn You About, a book built around the 10 questions every therapist should be asking their clients and every partner should be asking each other. She has worked with hundreds of men and women to fix what conventional therapy keeps missing, and her approach has built her one of the largest relationship audiences online.
In this episode of Habits and Hustle, Sadia breaks down why your therapist's advice may be quietly hurting your relationship, the real reason high body count damages men more than women, why people pleasers suffer more in relationships than narcissists do, and the four green flags that actually predict whether a couple makes it.
This is one of those conversations that will make you rethink every "diagnosis" you have ever given an ex or a friend who’s “avoidant”.
What's Discussed:
(5:36) Why love languages and attachment theory keep failing real couples.
(6:51) The therapy advice that is quietly making men less attractive to their partners.
(8:38) Why people pleasers suffer more in relationships than narcissists do.
(12:43) How honesty, not niceness, is what builds real intimacy.
(21:14) The narcissist label and what insisting on it actually says about you.
(31:16) The four green flags every healthy relationship is built on.
(1:21:14) Why high body count damages men more than women.
(1:45:50) The pattern most men fall into when they cannot be alone.
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Find more from Jen Cohen:
Website: jennifercohen.com
Instagram: @therealjencohen
Books: jennifercohen.com/books
Speaking: jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagements
Find more from Sadia Khan:
Website: sadiapsychology.com
Instagram: @thesadiapsychology
YouTube: @sadiapsychology
TikTok: @sadiapsychology
The Red Flags Book: permutedpress.com/book/the-red-flags
